I’ve had a really stressful week. I have to get this off my chest. The drama llama llama reeled its ugly head in my guild yet again. I’m a guild master, and we’ve been raiding, in one form or another since WoW Vanilla. To put this inter perspective, here’s a brief history of my guild.
We started The Core on day one of the release of the original wow. The guild leader was originally my best friend IRL Yuriken. Our first raid was Deadmines at level 14 ? (yes, we raided Deadmines with 10 people at level 14). We’ve come a long way since then. We server transferred from Argent Dawn to Icecrown and reformed the guild. When we did that as Burning Crusade was released, I took over as Guild Leader. We slowly built The Core into a second tier raiding guild (We were starting SSC\The Eye when the progression guilds were starting Black Temple). There were about five or six other guilds in our category that were behind the hard core raiding guilds.
By the end of BC, we had finished most of the Tier 5 dungeons and had started raiding Black Temple. There was a growing discontentment in the guild about people here and there thought they were better than other people. People got upset that our Random roll loot system gave equal priority to both veteran and new members for the new Tier6-quality loot that we were getting from Black Temple and Mount Hyjal. Three people, who I’ll label as malcontents, named Feldwin, Naborel, and Diatrysis decided that they didn’t like our way and that they could do it better. Keep in mind that two of the three hadn’t been active raiders for a while. Diatrysis never really showed up to much of anything and was a chronic alt-switcher, trying to soak up gear on multiple characters. We had pretty strict rules on main switching; which is one of the things they were disenfranchised with.
They ended up leaving the guild and forming their own guild called “Order of the Silver Hand”, a very original name … Through shady dealing, they convinced 11ish other people in my guild to go with them. Several others ended up leaving as well because their little revolt created the momentum for others to question the guild’s direction. One of the people that left to join them was Luniz, a healer that had been with us since the beginning of BC raiding, had struggled with us through KZ. They even ended up taking Jacy who was one of our officers. I was totally shocked that they could convince one of my officers to join them, someone I had trusted.
Fast forward to today. Following the release of Wrath, we all ended up raiding together for 25-Mans. I questioned the integrity of raiding with them, but others like Yuriken and Kilios thought they were trustworthy enough to raid with. We depended on them to fill 25-man spots for raids.
When UIduar hit, they was an initial 25-man raid which I couldn’t attend. A situation happened where a number of people from OotSH bailed on the raid, It appeared like an orchestrated bailing of the guild, immature words were spoken, and it led to a permanent OotSH boycott of our 25-Man raids.
Due to this, we were unable to fill spots for 25-mans on our own and had to go back to recruiting again. During this time, another one of our former raid leaders had left the guild to start his own. This new guild is called Red Dawn. Varehan was supposed to be leading our second Core 10-man night, but apparently he was just filling it with his friends outside the guild and a few people here and there who didn’t make it into the primary night. He was pretty much doing his own thing already, so he just made it official and left to do his own thing.
25-mans were out of the picture because we didn’t have the manpower, so we were just running 10-man Ulduar and Naxx to keep up the gearing. With only 10 spots to fill, people were getting anxious. Add to that near zero quality applicants and people started to get mad that they weren’t in the “progression group” and instead were in the “suck group”. A few people left or pulled out their alts, and that started a momentum of people leaving. As it stands now, I’ve lost about 8 more raiders to them. As it stands now, I barely have enough people left to form a single 10-man.
I’ve put a lot of time into organizing my guild, recruiting, and keeping it running for the last few years. It’s extremely demoralizing to have several people jump in and ruin it for stupid reasons. In both situations, there were active efforts to pull people from my guild. I didn’t do anything to these people except provide solid leadership. They’ve taken a good experienced, and geared raiding guild, torn it into three pieces, and now none of us can really do anything. I told my best friend that, I’m not necessarily going to quit now, but for the first time in a while, I can actually envision life without Warcraft. That’s how much this situation has burned me.